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Sexy Over 50 | Revitalize Your Mojo With Melinda Lee

Melinda Lee has a goal; to support female baby boomers get ready for love again! In her Sexy Over 50 books and on this site, women explore the topic of preparing themselves for love...Lee offers help via tips from on-line dating to anti-aging to sexual energy to mojo activation and head-to-toe-inside-out make-overs and how important all these factors are to attracting the right partner. Lee suggests boomer women begin by incorporating one or all of the Sexy Over 50 mojo activators. Within weeks Sexy Over 50 devotees see their lives change. Starting at age 40, then, 50, 60 and beyond Melinda found women complain about attracting men....and, that's why Lee founded Sexy Over 50. Lee's philosophy is that successfully dating and feeling sexy is a state of mind...so whether you are single and looking to begin dating again, wanting to wear sexy lingerie and feel sexy doing it, or, have a desire to simply feel young again Melinda Lee's Sexy Over 50 movement may just inspire you to take action to have more!

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Sexy Over 50 Online dating tips for female boomers

Sexy Over 50...Top On-Line Dating Tips For Boomer Newbies

Tip #1- Get a NEW great photo...it is one of your best tools! My friend's Janet and Stephanie can look attractive or very average depending on the day, the activity and how much energy they put into their presentation. Your photo should reflect that you can "fix up" but still look like you! Remembering that Men Are Hunters and that means very visual...one of your keys to success online is to have a very flattering photo. This does not mean that you need to have a "Glamour Shot" that you could never in a million years replicate...it means having a photo that shows your best features...and looks like you look today! DO NOT use an old photo of you no matter how flattering. This is most men's major complaint...women using OLD photos of them YEARS younger and many pounds thinner. If you try this you will not get the desired results...men don't like to be duped...and neither do you!

Tip #2- Write your profile, re-write your profile, get help if needed on word-smithing. Some of us like to write, we're good at it and enjoy the process. Others of us hate to write as much as we hate public speaking especially when it's talking about ourselves and our amazing attributes! That is why I am suggesting that you get a friend or two (or Me!) to help you write your profile. Sometimes we don't really see what makes us special, adorable, lovable...even sexy! But a friend or even an ex-lover can easily tell you what are some of the most attractive attributes that you have to offer.

Don't be shy, this is the time to gently brag...if you are an award winning gourmet chef let him know that you LOVE to cook. Mention your favorite dishes and maybe even a fun cooking disaster...it makes you more real and could give you something to laugh about on your first phone call.

Hint: While men love to talk about sex putting too much sexual language in your profile may give the wrong message and attract "undesirables" versus the boyfriend you imagine!

Sexy Over 50 is the goal and dating can be fun...Tips #3-#10 coming in future posts!!! See ya soon...Melinda Lee, author, "Sexy Over 50"

 

 

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I can't help it that being Sexy Over 50 is having a fit body. Yet, sometimes as we get older we can pack on extra poundage. If we look back to the way we looked as teenagers and young adults when we were in the "job" of attracting members of the opposite sex,  we usually see that our bodies were slimmer. Sometimes women over 50 get resentful of men in their age group dating women who are so much younger. We say to ourselves, "Why are these guys dating women who look like their daughters? Why are these men surrounding themselves with soooo much younger women?" I see this sooo much especially here in LA where it is the norm.
 
At one point in my life I thought that these guys were trying to make themselves feel younger by being with younger women. I felt that men dating women half their age had some sort of "mental disorder" and therefore could not be of interest to me.  I thought to myself with attitude..."Any man who is dating someone younger than his daughter certainly can't have his emotional act together." But then when I queried some of these men the response that I got was and still is... "I can't help it I am attracted to attractive younger bodies." They explain, "Men are visual creatures by nature. We see things and we want to have them, we are hunters. It is the way we are built." After doing some research, I realized that men are so different in their actual genetic makeup that I had to realize what makes them tick. What I was told is point on, "Men are hunters. Men need to be hunting to feel sexy and alive." Since thre beginning of time this has been true...men protect and provide...Sexy Over 50 History photo112706766
 
So if you want to attract and be "hunted" by men you need to look like what they are attracted to...probably via a slimmer version of you. And, whether we want to admit it or not, it truly is sexy to have a fit body. So I wondered what gets in the way of us having these firm slim bodies that we once had in our youth. Have we just gotten lazy? Are there hormonal and thyroid issues? Have we been gorging ourselves with fast food because we're too busy to think about a healthy option?
 
What has gotten in our way from being the healthiest and slimmest most sexy version of ourselves that we can be? Contemplate the topic deeply. Once you have figured out your block, (If you can't figure it out contact me directly) and say to yourself..."Now is the time to take hold and reclaim the body that I once had and I will have again!"
 
More on this topic in future posts...honestly, you make not like what I am saying here but it's true. So, if you are a boomer and want to be Sexy Over Fifty...please stay tuned!
 
 
 
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