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Sexy Over 50 | Revitalize Your Mojo With Melinda Lee

Melinda Lee has a goal; to support female baby boomers get ready for love again! In her Sexy Over 50 books and on this site, women explore the topic of preparing themselves for love...Lee offers help via tips from on-line dating to anti-aging to sexual energy to mojo activation and head-to-toe-inside-out make-overs and how important all these factors are to attracting the right partner. Lee suggests boomer women begin by incorporating one or all of the Sexy Over 50 mojo activators. Within weeks Sexy Over 50 devotees see their lives change. Starting at age 40, then, 50, 60 and beyond Melinda found women complain about attracting men....and, that's why Lee founded Sexy Over 50. Lee's philosophy is that successfully dating and feeling sexy is a state of mind...so whether you are single and looking to begin dating again, wanting to wear sexy lingerie and feel sexy doing it, or, have a desire to simply feel young again Melinda Lee's Sexy Over 50 movement may just inspire you to take action to have more!

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Sexy Over 50...Are You Available?

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As we think about being Sexy Over 50 and wanting to date, the question that comes up for ME is...Am I really and truly "available?" I hear so many clients talk about attracting a man. Those are their exact words..."I want a man in my life!" Yet, when I watch their actions I can't see where they are leaving space for a relationship to occur. Because they don't currently have a romantic relationship they have filled their life so full that nothing or no one could possibly squeeze in. Sexy Over 50 female boomer dating tips 79073356 

I ask them...if you want a relationship how will you make time? Oh, that's easy they say..."When he comes along I will find time and space for him." Then they smile proudly as if God and The Universe will totally understand. Unfortunately it does not usually work that way...there is no vacuum for the man to fill.

One client told me she had finally met an amazing man and had a few great dates...but then it all seemed to just melt away. I asked for more details...she said they had gone out on a Saturday night then he called on Monday to see when he could see her next...as she rattled off all her activities...Work, the Kids, the Grandchildren (all good and important!) then, her women's support group, book club, volunteering at the Homeless Shelter, mani-pedi, walking the dog, shampooing her carpet...the list went on for a mile. "Mr. Right" accepted her busy life for a few weeks but eventually opted-out because he felt (I am guessing) too low of a priority on her "To Do" list. Apparently "Get a Man" ranked somewhere between walk the dog and shampoo the carpet!

Everyone wants to feel important, loved, needed...and a priority! So one of the first things I suggest women who want a relationship do is to "clear" before he enters. This can feel a bit uncomfortable at first but you can take that time to clean out your space...literally make room in your closets, in your garage, in your schedule for him. What may surprise you is your resistance to giving up some of you for him. So no matter what the outcome if being a Sexy Over Fifty Female Boomer who is interested in Dating...simply consider how available you really are for him! And, always remember, this is just one person's opinion....all the best, Melinda Lee, author, "Sexy Over 50"


Author, Actor, Dating Diva for Boomer Babes...Lee loves to help women find fun unique ways to stay young and sexy. Lee loves to help women Lee founded the SexyOver50 brand as a place for 40-60+ year olds to share ways that they stay dynamic. In past "lives" Lee has hosted her own radio talk show, "Personal Best," been the Editor-at-Large of Balance Magazine, innovated an anti-aging workout on DVD and download, "Spoga" and "Simply Spoga" which she trademarked. Her eBook series "SexyOver50" is now available on Amazon. Besides inspiring Boomers, Lee loves to hike, dance, cook for friends and throw crazy theme parties...if you're invited say, YES!


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    Melanie Camp Saturday, 09 March 2013

    Melinda, you are so right! Through experience I can say that when dates take a look at my schedule they turn away...I have filled my life with so much activity that there does not seem to be any room for a relationship. As I ready for my daughters fist baby, I am looking at a much less crowded calendar and I have begun to clear my living space...closets ...room.. As I contemplate how nice it would be to have male company again. Will it be the grandchild or a husband....only the universe knows.....

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    Melinda Lee Tuesday, 12 March 2013

    That is an interesting choice...and I say enjoy both. I heard a speaker once who said there are two kinds of people "OR" people or "AND" people. "OR" people think like this....I can be rich OR happy, In a relationship OR successful. "AND" people say...I can be rich AND happy, In a relationship AND successful..."OR" people think they have to give up something "AND" people think they can have it all....interesting perspective.

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